Tessa and I recently had a couple in our office.  The woman was facing an internal dilemma.  She wanted her husband to occasionally bring her flowers (like he used to).  She did not want to ask him.  She felt … Continue reading →

Tessa and I see many couples who really don’t understand this concept and as a result have problems with their marriage and their family.  Like the organizational structure of a successful business (executive [spouses], middle management [parents], employees [children]) the family … Continue reading →

Cars and Love is a really fun book filled with 60 years of relationship wisdom presented in an easy-to-read format.  It is a “how to” manual of relationship fundamentals. Tessa Kershnar, MFT and Steve Parker, Ph.D., MFT have collaborated in … Continue reading →